There are ladies who hold the belief that because they are plus-sized they will not be able to dress attractively. Quite simply, this is not true. A woman may be attractive at any size, but at the same time, unfortunately, she can look like a tramp at any size also. There are simple rules to stay on the right side of the divide between slutty and sexy, luckily that division is quite clear. How can you show off your sexiness? It isn't necessary to have a movie-star smile or a perfect body to be sexy. It is more important to feel good about yourself, to carry yourself with confidence.
It is about how you act, how you walk, how you talk. Showing skin isn't always sexy, sometimes keeping things hidden is more tempting. Here are some tips to help you accentuate your sexiness.
Feeling sexy is the key to looking sexy, which is simple but true. Confident women give off a sexy aura. Always search for clothes that make you feel sexy, as attitude is half the battle. Unexpected accents of lace in the folds of an A-line dress or at the neckline of a nice shirt are classy and sexy. Lacy sleeves also offer glimpses of skin without being overdone.
Add the lace to something that is very well fitted, exude confidence, and you will look stunningly sexy without ever being even slightly trashy. Black is thought of as "the sexy color," but other colors can be very sexy, too. There's a whole world of other colors out there vying for your attention. Pink, all those shades of blue, pastels, and even neutral tones can be really sexy if you use them effectively.
Embellishments like beaded accents can also help your sexy, fashionable cause. Show a little skin, but don't give it all away. A short skirt can be nice to show a little leg, but you don't want to go too short or you begin to venture into the slutty area. A hem that touches your fingertips when you hold your hands down by your sides is a nice, safe length. You can also try a nice strappy dress.
Sleeveless, tank or straps, it's your choice. If you are not comfortable with baring your upper arms, a pretty, sheer shrug or shawl can cover that area nicely. Get the fit that fits you. Tight does not equal sexy. You want clothes that fit and flatter, not clothing that clings to your body, accenting every bulge and bump. Fit is very important and you don't have to don a pair of skintight jeans or a skirt that is so tight you can barely breathe.
Go for a good fit and a classically sexy look. The proper shoe can add that certain something special to any outfit. With a hot outfit, even wide width shes can look wonderful, if they are the right ones.
A bit of heel is often considered attractive, but that rule isn't always true. Dressy shoes for a nice dress or cute sandals with beads for a hot summer dress will let you have that timeless sexy look that you're looking for.
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